Submissive Names for Males and Females You Have Not Heard Of
The BDSM lifestyle allows you to elevate your ordinary life and immerse yourself in your wildest, most passionate desires. Part of this lifestyle includes how you relate to your partner and the dynamic you share. This also includes what names you call each other.
If you have a defined Dom-Sub relationship and are looking for some fun submissive names, this article can help get you started.
Submissive Names For Males And Females
A BDSM relationship is a delicate play of kink, fetish, whips, roleplay, and yes, care, too. And an integral part of a Dom-Sub relationship is the names they have for each other.
Dominant and Submissive are the two roles that you and your partner may choose in your relationship. The relationship often has a significant play of power combined with discipline, masochism, and sadism.
So, when you decide on the names you will be using for one another, they are intended to amplify this power dynamic between the two of you. And in this relationship, the dominant person or Dom will be the only one who can call their Submissive by a specific name.
The Submissive names you decide on will be indicative of your relationship dynamic. For example, if you are a caring Dom, you can name your Submissive something sweet like “Princess” or “Baby girl.” And depending on your relationship, the Submissive partner may or may not get a say in what name is being used for them.
Ways To Come Up With Submissive Names
#1. Based On Scenario
A Dom-Sub relationship can come in a number of different forms. For example, you may have a master-slave, bondage, training, humiliation, or a permanent or 24/7 dynamic. Depending on your relationship or roleplay scenario, the names you choose may also vary.
So, in a master-slave scenario, some Submissive names you can use include “little girl” or “slut.”
#2. Names You Love
Contrary to the notion that Submissive names are always degrading and humiliating, some couples use more loving names.
Such Submissive names typically work in the more affectionate Dom-Sub relationships, like a master and pet or daddy/mommy and good girl/boy.
These names may be an endearing play on your real name. It also boils down to the agreement you have as a couple and what makes you both comfortable.
Submissive Names For Males
For male Subs, the Submissive names are often ones that emphasize youthfulness as the Dom typically likes caring for them. It’s difficult to find a Submissive name that speaks for you, but these ideas for Submissive names for males can help you out:
Refers to a young bear, perfect for a Daddy Bear. can
A shortened version of the word submissive, it can emphasize the Sub being inferior or lower than the Dom.
The perfect name for a young ladies’ man who has that handsome charm.
If the Submissive is more effeminate and loves it, this name is perfect for them.
It may sound rather cold, but if the Sub loves being “used,” what better name to express themself!
By definition, “thrall” is one who is completely under someone’s power. So, this nickname is quite fitting for an obedient Sub.
A cute nickname for a Sub who plays innocent.
This one’s a bit nasty, but great for a Sub who aims to please and fulfill their Dom’s every desire.
Also indicative of the male genitalia, but may also be considered as an affectionate name for someone you treasure.
An endearing alternative for someone you are highly attracted to.
Submissive Names For Females
For females, Submissive names can be truly diverse — from sweet and cute to downright humiliating and nasty. Take a look at this list and see whether any of them suit your Dom-Sub dynamic.
Taken from the popular science fiction series by John Norman titled Gor, “kajira” translates to “slave girl.” In the books, Gorean enslaved people are trained and expected to be 100% obedient to their masters.
A term often used when couples play the knight and damsel in distress scenario. A damsel is the perfect portrayal of a virginal girl who is helpless and needs a mighty Dom to rescue her.
This Submissive name can be both endearing and crude — it can either stand for a dear sweetheart or a prostitute, whatever works for your role.
#4. Sweet Pea
Often used for young Subs who are petite and play the young and sweet angle to perfection.
Usually associated with the submissive clitoris, this name indicates the Dom’s pursuit of that treasure.
Another fitting nickname for a Sub intended to be young and playful while being slightly naughty.
This name’s perfect for a super sweet Sub, but may also refers to the female Sub’s private parts.
Slightly indicative of being the warmth and happiness of your Dom, you become their “slice of sunshine.”
A popular Submissive name in roleplays where the Sub is expected to act slutty and the Dom gets to punish them.
This nickname is used when the Sub is supposed to simply, please their Dom. As a doll, you react to nothing and say nothing, allowing your Dom to speak and do to you whatever they like.