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Dating: How to Tell If There’s Chemistry Between Two People

by Wendy Watts August 17, 2021 818 10 min read
 Dating: How to Tell If There’s Chemistry Between Two People

Have you ever been on a date and felt sparks flying all over the place but wondered if it’s just you? Chemistry is an instant connection between two people. However, unlike infatuation or a crush, it must be two-sided. So, how to tell if there’s chemistry between two people(without having to ask, of course)?

Here are some signs you can use to see if there’s chemistry between you and your date.

What Is Chemistry?

What Is Chemistry

The chemistry between two people is a combination of sexual attraction, desire, passion, and emotional connection you can’t control. You can’t force this kind of bond — it’s natural and undeniable. Everyone wants to experience it, but only a few actually find it.

Furthermore, there are various types of chemistry, like intellectual chemistry, emotional chemistry, and sexual chemistry. But the best kind involves all of them.

How to Know If You Have Chemistry With Someone

If you feel this kind of magnetic attraction to someone, you must be wondering if it’s mutual. So, here are fourteen signs that will tell you if you and your date share some serious chemistry.

1. You Are Drawn to Each Other

You Are Drawn to Each Other

Although you two met only recently, it looks like you can’t get enough of one another. All the time, you feel the desire to be near that person or look at them from the corner of your eye.

Moreover, you think they feel it too. You notice your crush always finds a way to be around you or engage you in a conversation.

But before you jump to any conclusions, first check if that’s how they behave with other people as well. And if you think they pay a bit more attention to you than others, chances are your chemistry is mutual.

2. You Two Keep Making Eye Contact

Eye contact is a good way to tell whether you have chemistry with someone or not. One quick glance is not enough. Frequent quick glances, on the other hand, can indicate that a person is interested but shy. But mostly, we are talking about shared and prolonged eye contact — this is how you know there’s a mutual interest.

So, if a person avoids your gaze or looks uncomfortable when you lock eyes with them, there’s no chemistry. Most likely, it’s just your one-sided infatuation. However, if you stare at each other long and hard, you probably share a sizzling chemistry.

3. You Keep Smiling at Each Other

When in a room together, you can’t stop smiling, and neither can they. Moreover, every time you see them, your day gets better, and your mood lights up.

Of course, this has to be a two-way street too. If you notice that the person’s face brightens up when you approach, or they laugh at your jokes (even the bad ones) — congrats, they’re vibing with you.

However, make sure they are not just fake smiling or polite smiling. Some people have a habit of smiling at everyone when in company. So, pay attention if the person is smiling at other people in your group as well.

4. Even Silence Feels Comfortable

Even Silence Feels Comfortable

You know that dreadful moment when you are on a first date with someone, and you run out of things to talk about? Yeah, that’s a lack of chemistry.

When the chemistry is bubbling beneath the surface, words are not always necessary. Just being there with a person you like feels incredibly satisfying. You feel relaxed, and the silence is not awkward. So, you don’t feel the need to fill it with babbling.

5. Don’t Forget About Butterflies

Remember when you were a teenager and had your first crush? Then you probably know that tingling feeling in your stomach that we call butterflies. Real chemistry feels the same — just more relaxed. So, you feel the connection, but you are not obsessing over the object of your interest.

And if the other person feels the same, they won’t be able to hide it. Butterflies will make them act a bit silly, seem jumpy, and be clumsier when you are together.

6. Watch Their Body Language

Another way you can see if someone feels the same vibe as you is to watch their body language. There are some classic signs, like if their pupils dilate when they see you, their breathing becomes deeper, or they blush. Generally, they may seem more nervous and might try to touch you casually.

But some signs are more gender-related. When they are interested in someone, women tend to lick their lips, twirl their hair, orient their body toward the person they like, and make prolonged eye contact. Men, on the other hand, like to show off their strength and masculinity. So, they can make bold gestures, speak loudly, or drink more than usual.

7. You Miss Him, He Misses You

Miss

Temporary lust quickly fades away. You can be sexually attracted to someone, but you forget about the person as soon as they are gone.

But when you share true chemistry with someone, it makes you crave him, miss him when you are not together. Also, seeing other people never even crosses your mind. And your crush probably feels the same. For this reason, if both of you are busy arranging some group get-togethers, you could just be trying to meet again.

8. You Are Playful With Each Other

Two people that have chemistry are naturally playful and teasing with one another. They can also pick on each other for no other reason but to provoke a reaction. It’s just a way of keeping things interesting. So, if there are inside jokes, teasing comments, playful touches going on — the person is into you.

9. When You Are Together, Time Flies

No matter how many hours you spend in each other’s company, it’s not enough. You have such good conversations that you lose track of time. And even though you can always find another topic, just being with them in silence makes you happy.

10. Both of You Notice Small Things About Each Other

Notice Small Things About Each Other

You notice every time they wear a new shirt, and they comment on your hairstyle. They remember the story you told months ago; you know how they like their coffee. Such details are usually easy to miss. But if someone is important to you, you make it your job to notice them.

Therefore, you can check if someone feels the same chemistry by watching how they react to small things you do. Do they show a special interest or pay no attention at all?

11. The Undeniable Sexual Attraction

In many instances, your body will start reacting to someone before your mind does. The sexual chemistry will make every situation feel incredibly intense, even the most innocent ones like a handshake or kiss on the cheek.

Moreover, this sexual tension will seep into other signs that’s been mentioned above. For example, your jokes might have sexual implications.

12. You Have Similar Interests

When two people have chemistry, their interests naturally align. They share passions and likes, but of course, not in everything. However, there are enough shared interests to make an instant bond between them.

In the same manner, they might have different opinions on a topic but still be generally interested in the same field. What’s more, their worldview often aligns.

But beware, although shared interests can be a sign of strong chemistry, they are not enough to build a relationship on. In other words, things you have in common might draw you together but are not enough to keep you together.

13. You Are Focused on Each Other

Focused on Each Other

Do you know how this person has captured your attention from the first moment? Well, prepare yourself — that will never stop. You will start noticing that everything reminds you of them and that your desires are centered around them. Moreover, you can be together for a long time, but you will always be attuned to them.

You can use these facts to see if your crush feels the same chemistry as you. So, when you are in a group of people, do they pay attention to what you are saying, even though nobody else does? They will show it by giving you some feedback.

14. Other People Notice Your Chemistry

Sometimes your friends can be the ones to point you in the right direction or confirm what you already suspect — that there’s chemistry between you and that special someone.

People you spend the most time with can notice the stares, casual touches, the flirting. So, if your friends tell you that sparks are flying all over the place, listen to them. They might be right.

The Bottom Line

The instant chemistry that occurs between two strangers is so simple yet beautiful and unique. Those who get to experience it are truly the lucky ones.

However, even though there’s a strong chemistry, sometimes things just don’t work out. And that’s okay. It’s painful, but it’s better to end it if the relationship doesn’t mature into something deeper.

On the other hand, those who get to see their chemistry evolve into love can experience something every true romantic soul out there dreams of. So, go and live the dream. The next time you meet the love of your life, you’ll know instantly without asking questions like “how to tell if there’s chemistry between two people”.

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Wendy Watts

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Wendy is a queen at multitasking and enjoys trying her hand at various things. From winemaking to pottery, knitting, and photography, she’s tried them all. When she’s not stringing words together, you can find her spending time with her menagerie of pets or going out on long solitary walks.

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